Finding miss or mister right is not an easy thing to do. Hope you already know what you want in your would-be. If your would-be spouse is free of destructive behaviours then you are one lucky person. Happiness and emotional support is what everyone looks for in their spouse. Although expecting a spouse to make you feel happy all the time is unreasonable, being with the right person can bring happiness and a sense of personal strength to your life.

If your choice really is the right person, you will feel the support and encouragement about your own growth both emotionally and intellectually. The right person will want you to be emotionally healthy and able to stand on your own two feet. When you are with the right person you will feel good about yourself, safe, and fulfilled.

It is important that the person you marry is someone who understands and is agreeable to your wants and needs when it comes to varied faces of affection.

You will know you are with your soul mate when your spouse says "I love you" not only in words spoken, but by loving actions. We define loving actions as doing things such as noticing when you are tired, remembering your birthday, wanting to spend time with you, listening to you, showing you respect, calling if you are running late, showing you affection, being patient with you if you don't understand something.

You will know you are marrying the right person if you are emotionally compatible with one another.

Your choice is your soul mate if they are kind, considerate, and polite. Little things in life such as saying 'thank you' and holding a door open may seem old fashioned, but they do reflect the amount of caring and kindness in a person.

Having different likes and different opinions is okay as long as the two of you agree to disagree. Although you may not always agree with one another, conversations with the right person will be interesting and not boring. The right person will communicate thoughts and feelings with you and will not keep hurts and concerns bottled up inside.